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jedno vrijeme sam se dopisivala s ovim likom, mnogo je cool :) obozavam ga :)
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evo sta kaze o konoformizmu (i to bas danas, koji sinhronicitet :D)

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Barefoot Doctor Bit: Why Do Most People Prefer Others to Conform?

Barefoot Doctor: “We have this choice when we start school - be like everyone else or just be yourself. We generally go for a mix of the two because we're both herd animals and individuals. So even the most individualistic, original people subscribe to certain brands, signaling they're part of that particular tribe.

It's inevitable, no matter how enlightened you are, because we want to know we'll be taken care of and included when the spoils of the hunt return to the cave, or we'll die (that's the primordial impulse working).

However by shifting your level of focus - widening your perceptual filter in other words - you start seeing yourself and others as expressions of the ineffable mystery - the power that generates the universe - and the more often you reframe reality like this, the less prone you are to the status issue. Not that it will ever disappear entirely since, on the human level, pecking order maintenance and adjustment is part of the mechanism.

It's more about affording yourself the option of adopting the transpersonal, transcendent view at any time and then taking that option more of the time because it makes you feel lighter that way.
And when, from that perspective, you look at a group - the 'in-crowd' – you realise there is no group at all - just lots of people projecting their fears and hopes and collectively agreeing to uphold a myth of some sort -but it's a chimera - it doesn't exist.

Essentially, it's down to contributing your own unique essence to the collective to enrich reality for others as well as yourself - and loving yourself enough to know you count. All the rest takes care of itself. The key is looking at us all as children in the school playground - it's no more sophisticated than that, no matter how much it looks the opposite.”

Even the most powerful billionaire, or the most groovy celebrity on the planet - every single one of us is just a child in the playground with all our insecurities and complexes. The only antidote is to meditate a bit every day on the underlying power that generates us all.”

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